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Its my first massage i want to give you saying truly nothing is mine its all i collected from some books that i sharing with you.
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The Art Of Listening...
The more listening you do, the smarter you will become , the better you will be liked, and the better business you will do.God has given us two ears and one mouth , it means we should listen twice than speak.
It is also said that silence is diamond. not only in business but also in our daily life listening is very much important.
Here i want to give some situation showing how listening help us in our day to day life and make us more friendly,more sincere, more obedient, and make others to feel we are so good in nature.
1In class room if your listening the teacher assumes you are the most obedient student in the class.
2.With your friends, while they are discussing some topic if u listen with out any intervention they think you r giving the love and respect to him.you become a true friend.
3.With your loved one , while she/ he saying something to you if u listen then she/he will think u not only love her/him very much but also care u soo much.
4.In a Group meeting or Interview if u mange to listen properly then u will definitely get some edge over others.
5.In a case of argument listen is the only best solution.
There so many situation in which by showing that you are listening u can create a great impression.
I think what ever written above every body know all these.
Now i am saying some true and practical thing about listening :
- Its one of the most difficult thing in the world
- After listening 10 min. our mind need a rest of 20 min.
- Its not possible to listen continuously with full of attention.
Do you want some tricks so that without listening to the person you can give the massage that u r listening with full of concentration.
TRICKS TO SHOW OTHERS THAT YOU ARE LISTENING:::
- LOOK AT THE PERSON WHO IS TALKING.
- LEAN TOWARDS THE SPEAKER.
- ASK QUESTIONS.
- STICK TO SPEAKER'S SUBJECT AND DON'T INTERRUPT.
- USE THE SPEAKER'S WORDS -'YOUR' ..'YOU'
Thank You
May lord give you all............that u pray to him.......
Alok Mohapatra
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